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Happiness
1) The Contagion of Happiness
Harvard researchers are discovering how we can all become happier.
It seems that everyone has offered opinions on what it means to be happy, from Buddhist monks and positive psychologists to Charles Schulz and the Beatles. Whether you believe that bliss is found with a warm puppy, a prescription of Prozac, or in the pages of self-help books, one thing is certain: you crave more of it.
Despite all the clichés and platitudes in popular culture, happiness is one of the least studied human emotions. Unlike sadness, anger, or fear, it's not a "treatable" problem, and its very essence seems more the stuff of greeting cards than hard science. However, this is changing as an increasing number of researchers, including several affiliated with Harvard Medical School, are uncovering surprising facts about the nature of delight.
The Sunny Side
One of the greatest challenges in the study of happiness lies in defining it. 'Happiness is a broad term that can mean different things to different people,' says Nancy Etcoff, an HMS assistant professor of psychology at Massachusetts General Hospital's Department of Psychiatry. 'We can view happiness in at least three ways: as a hedonic state, as a cognitive state, or as a general life philosophy. Happiness can therefore refer to a way of thinking, such as being optimistic; a way of feeling, such as experiencing joy, pleasure, relief or gratitude; or simply a way of being.’
Others make a clearer distinction between the concept of happiness and the positive emotions the word describes. 'Happiness is simply drive reduction,' says George Vaillant, an HMS professor of psychiatry at Brigham and Women’s Hospital who has studied the science of positive emotions. ‘Let’s say you’re speeding down the highway and your stomach is growling. You spot the Golden Arches, pull over and order a Big Mac. That makes you ‘happy’.” However, that satisfaction is fleeting — the heartburn that follows is likely to last longer than the gratification. Vaillant believes that happiness is a conscious state of mind rooted in the neocortex — the region of the brain responsible for thinking, planning and decision-making. You eat a hamburger and think, ‘I feel good.’
Joy, on the other hand, is more complex. It's the warm, fuzzy feeling you get when you hear your child laugh, hug your partner, or cuddle a puppy. 'Joy is all about our connection to others,' explains Vaillant. It’s an almost visceral, subconscious feeling that appears to stem from the limbic system in the brain, which controls emotions including pleasure. Unlike happiness, joy involves little cognitive awareness — you just feel good without thinking about it — but it’s more enduring.
These intricacies have made joy difficult to measure, so scientists mainly tackle what Vaillant calls the 'tamer' idea of general happiness in their research. But that has proved tricky, too. Medicine’s penchant for problem-solving means that most researchers have focused their efforts on studying the causes of, and treatments for, gloomier sentiments such as sadness, depression and anxiety. The smiley-faced cheer of happiness seems less serious — and less potentially profitable — in comparison.
Nevertheless, those who have delved into our psyches to discover more about how and why we experience positive emotions have unearthed some fascinating facts. Among their findings: Happiness is at least partially genetic. Researchers at the University of Minnesota found that identical twins appear to share the same general level of happiness, regardless of whether they were raised together or separately. Such studies suggest that nature may play a larger role than nurture in determining our 'hedonic set point', or happiness thermostat.
Evolution is also responsible. 'Human beings evolved in a dangerous world where we had to recognise threats in order to survive,' says Etcoff. 'As a result, our brains are much more sensitive to negative emotions and sensations than positive ones.'
Perhaps it is this predisposition to pessimism that causes many people to be wary of looking on the bright side. After all, the exhilarating highs of happiness and joy increase our vulnerability to the depths of despair — a broken heart, dashed hopes and shattering disappointments. 'Positive emotions,' Vaillant points out, 'are often associated with tears.'
Of course, if you’re born with Eeyore's set point, that doesn't mean you can't transform yourself into Tigger. While some of us may be biologically predisposed to shyness, depression or anxiety, we are not predestined to a life of negativity. How we find happiness may depend on where we look for it, and that isn't necessarily under the surgeon's knife or in a million-dollar mansion. Although a widely publicised 2011 report from the University of Texas at Austin found that the most attractive people were about 10 per cent happier than their less attractive peers, other research suggests that our own beauty — or lack thereof — has little to do with a sunny disposition. In her research for the book Survival of the Prettiest, Etcoff found that, while attractive people tend to enjoy more advantages than plainer people, they don’t necessarily experience greater life satisfaction.
Money doesn’t always buy happiness either. While a boost in income does appear to trigger an elevation in mood, this only occurs up to a certain point: $75,000 per year, according to one recent study. People on lower incomes — particularly those on or below the poverty line — experience more stress, but once financial worries ease, positive emotions plateau. If Bill Gates and Oprah Winfrey are happier than the rest of us, it isn't because of their bank balances. Ultimately, it may be a sense of gratitude for what we have that heartens us. Classic studies comparing the emotional well-being of lottery winners, paraplegics and quadriplegics found that all three groups had similar levels of current happiness. This suggests that, once the initial windfall or trauma has faded, we adapt to change and return to our original hedonic set point.
So what does bring us happiness? Research shows that our relationships with others, rather than what we see in the mirror or find in our wallets, matter most. This concept held true for our cave-dwelling ancestors, who formed elaborate social structures to increase their odds of survival. These days, our connections are more about building a family, gossiping at the water cooler and expanding our list of Facebook friends than outsmarting saber-toothed tigers. However, the results of the long-running Grant Study of Adult Development, which Vaillant helps oversee, suggest that the emotional benefits of connectedness remain. Vaillant and his colleagues found that only the capacity for loving relationships predicted life satisfaction in older men.
In turn, being happy can have its own advantages. More than three decades ago, Grant Study data revealed that good mental health in men mitigated the decline of their physical health, even when accounting for genetics, obesity, and tobacco and alcohol use. However, Vaillant has since discovered that, after the age of 50, vascular risk factors such as smoking, elevated diastolic blood pressure, diabetes, obesity and alcohol abuse appear to play a far greater role than mental health in terms of subsequent health and longevity. Nevertheless, other research still supports a link to mental health. Ichiro Kawachi, an HMS associate professor of medicine at Brigham and Women’s Hospital, found a strong correlation between happiness and good health in both individuals and communities.
And there’s more good news: happiness may be limitless. Just as someone’s bad mood can rub off on you, positivity may also spread, says Nicholas Christakis, an HMS professor of medical sociology and of medicine, who has researched the contagion of emotions within the larger context of social networks. His findings have shown that happiness may be a collective phenomenon: having a happy friend who lives within a mile of you, for example, appears to increase the probability that you will be happy too. In collaboration with James Fowler at the University of California, San Diego, Christakis discovered similar effects regarding the spread of happiness among next-door neighbours, siblings who live nearby, and spouses, meaning good feelings continue to spread from person to person even when there is no longer a direct connection to the original Pollyanna.
“Just as some diseases are contagious,” says Christakis, “we’ve found that many emotions can pulse through social networks.” Unlike the flu, however, happiness is a gift you can actually enjoy.
Perhaps, as Christakis’s research suggests, that’s the real key to a rosy outlook.
'Happiness isn’t just one big event,' says Etcoff, 'but the accrual of smaller, incremental steps, such as feeling gratitude and helping others.'
Christakis agrees. ‘Rather than asking how we can become happier, we should be asking how we can increase happiness all around us,’ he says. 'When you make positive changes in your own life, those effects ripple out from you and you can find yourself surrounded by the very thing you fostered.'
Happiness
2) What Is Happiness?
The concept of happiness is often considered to be an elusive and ephemeral state. This concept has been the subject of extensive research and debate among philosophers, theologians, psychologists, and economists. Since the 1990s, a whole branch of psychology—positive psychology—has been dedicated to the objective of defining it. Happiness can be defined as a state of well-being that encompasses living a good life, one with a sense of meaning and deep contentment.
The experience of joy has been shown to have positive effects on one's physical health. A substantial and continuously expanding corpus of research also suggests that happiness can enhance physical health. Feelings of positivity and fulfilment appear to have a beneficial effect on cardiovascular health, the immune system, inflammation levels and blood pressure, among other factors. The correlation between happiness and longevity, in addition to the quality of life and well-being, has been well-documented.
The pursuit of happiness is a universal endeavour. Researchers have found that people from every corner of the world tend to rate happiness as more important than other desirable personal outcomes, such as the acquisition of wealth, material goods, and even heaven.
How to Be Happy
Contrary to popular belief, happiness is not merely the result of experiencing transient pleasures. Indeed, research findings indicate that the attainment of happiness frequently necessitates the navigation of periods of significant distress. The degree of happiness experienced by an individual is influenced by a multitude of factors, including but not limited to an individual's genetic makeup, life circumstances, achievements, marital status, social relationships, and even the characteristics of one's neighbours. This phenomenon is also applicable to individual modes of thinking and emotional expression. While external factors undoubtedly play a role, research suggests that a significant degree of happiness is within an individual's personal sphere of influence.
The regular indulgence in minor pleasures, the engagement in challenging activities, the setting and meeting of goals, the maintenance of close social ties, and the identification of purpose beyond oneself have been identified as factors that can contribute to an increase in life satisfaction. The promotion of well-being is not merely a consequence of happiness; it is the pursuit of happiness itself that is pivotal.
Indicators of a state of well-being characterised by contentment and satisfaction with life.
The notion that contented individuals possess a sense of purpose is a fundamental tenet of this philosophy. The prevailing tendency is towards the cultivation of enduring relationships, the pursuit of personal objectives, and the maintenance of a lifestyle in accordance with one's principles. In contrast to an preoccupation with material possessions or indulgent vacations, individuals who experience sustained happiness have been observed to derive contentment from the modest delights of life, such as physical affection with a canine companion, the act of repose in a natural environment, or the simple pleasure of partaking in a hot beverage.
While the outward signs of contentment are subject to individual variation, potential indicators include:
They are receptive to acquiring new knowledge.
Their conduct is characterised by a high level of humility and patience.
Their faces are marked by a tendency to smile and laugh easily.
They go with the flow.
The practice of compassion is evident.
It has been demonstrated that the recipients of these gifts frequently express gratitude.
It is evident that they engage in practices that promote self-care.
The subjects reported that they had healthy relationships.
It has been observed that such individuals frequently experience positive emotions in response to the accomplishments of others.
The act of giving and receiving is characterised by a state of emotional ease and absence of distress.
The subjects of this study live with a sense of purpose and meaning.
The subjects do not possess an exaggerated sense of entitlement, nor do they harbour unreasonable expectations of others.
It is evident that the content in question does not exhibit any malicious or belittling tendencies.
It is evident that the subjects under scrutiny do not retain resentment.
They are not prone to registering minor irritations.
The present moment is of paramount importance to them, and they do not concern themselves with the past or future.
It is evident that they do not adopt the roles of martyr or victim.
The subjects in question have been observed to disseminate their sense of contentment to others on numerous occasions.
Myths About Happiness
There is a prevalence of erroneous assumptions concerning the factors that contribute to subjective well-being. The prevailing assumption is that happiness is contingent upon achieving a specific milestone, such as locating a suitable partner or attaining a certain income. However, humans have a remarkable capacity for adaptation to new circumstances, often acclimatising swiftly to new relationships or financial gains, reverting to a baseline level of happiness, and pursuing subsequent life goals. Fortunately, the same principle applies to setbacks; human beings are resilient and will most likely find happiness again.
The following thoughts exemplify these misconceptions about happiness:
The subject has expressed contentment in the prospect of material wealth and professional accomplishment.
The subject expressed contentment at the prospect of matrimony with a suitable partner.
The attainment of the ideal employment opportunity will result in a state of contentment.
The subject has expressed their inability to experience happiness in the context of a severed relationship.
The subject has indicated that the diagnosis will have a profoundly negative impact on their physical and mental well-being, and that they will never fully recover from it.
It is evident that the period of greatest personal significance and opportunity has now passed.
The present study will examine the concept of positive psychology.
Positive psychology is the branch of psychology that explores human flourishing. The text poses a series of questions designed to provoke reflection on the capacity of individuals to experience positive emotions, cultivate authentic relationships, attain a state of flow, achieve their objectives, and construct a meaningful life.
The movement was initiated by Martin Seligman, a psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania, with the objective of effecting a fundamental shift in the field of psychology. Its aim was to shift the focus of psychology from disease and distress to the provision of knowledge and skills that would enable individuals to cultivate growth, meaning, and fulfillment.
The investigation of happiness throughout the lifespan
It is acknowledged that each individual possesses a unique set of life experiences, which in turn engender unique perceptions of happiness. It has been observed that, when scientists examine the average trajectory of happiness over the lifespan, certain patterns tend to emerge. The levels of happiness and satisfaction experienced by individuals typically exhibit a U-shaped curve, with a nadir occurring during the period of adolescence to midlife, and a subsequent rise during the phase of older adulthood.
The factors that engender contentment in the early twenties may not be conducive to happiness in the later years, and conversely, the elements that engender joy in the latter years may have appeared inconsequential in the earlier years. It is imperative for individuals to persist in the observation and refinement of the factors that engender contentment in their lives, thereby ensuring a continuous pursuit of fulfilment throughout their existence.
The relationship between happiness and health
The concepts of health and happiness are inextricably linked. It is important to note that individuals afflicted with illnesses can indeed experience contentment; however, it is equally crucial to acknowledge the significance of attending to one's health as a pivotal component of well-being, a aspect that, it could be argued, is often underappreciated.
Researchers have identified numerous links between health and happiness, including a longer lifespan. However, it is challenging to distinguish which factor causes the other. Nevertheless, extant evidence suggests that implementing positive changes to diet, exercise, sleep, and other lifestyle factors can help many people feel more content.
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3) A Detour on the Path to Happiness
The notion that the pursuit of happiness may not be a straightforward endeavour for all individuals is a subject that warrants further investigation.
Key points
-The cultivation of friendships, which are widely considered to be the primary ingredient of happiness, can prove challenging for certain individuals.
-The capacity to establish and cultivate social connections is a learned ability.
-The vast majority of children learn to value close relationships through their personal experience of such bonds with their parents and siblings. Some don't.
In order to accomplish tasks that are typically effortless for others, it may be necessary to engage in skill development.
The conscious pursuit of happiness is a concept that merits serious consideration. The advent of a scientific framework for understanding happiness, alongside the emergence of "positive psychology" courses as the most sought-after academic programmes at prestigious institutions such as Yale, signifies a paradigm shift in the way we approach this complex phenomenon. It is evident that cultivating friendships is a fundamental component of positive psychology, as it is identified as a primary factor in the promotion of well-being. This approach is preferable to a dedicated pursuit of money or success without consideration of alternatives. However, it is important to consider the possibility that the pathway to happiness may be obscured for certain individuals. The cultivation of friendships, akin to the pursuit of activities that engender contentment, is predicated on the ability to do so. In the event that this is not the case, what is the consequence? It is evident that a considerable number of individuals enter their early adulthood with emotional limitations, although they may not be fully cognizant of this fact. Despite the challenges faced upon commencing my university education, including significant fears and personal distress, I did not seek professional assistance. It should be noted that a defence system was developed in order to maintain a certain emotional distance from the aforementioned feelings, regardless of the personal cost. In the absence of awareness and remedial assistance, the objective of attaining such a friendship remained unattainable, despite the potential for formulation.
The ability to establish and maintain interpersonal connections is a fundamental aspect of human development, yet it is also a learned skill. It is evident that effective parenting not only exemplifies the cultivation of positive friendships, but also fosters a close, affectionate bond with their child. This intimate connection, in itself, serves as a model for closeness, which is deeply ingrained in the child. It is unfortunate that not all individuals are blessed with such supportive parents. It has been suggested that individuals may become excessively preoccupied with their own personal issues or the process of maturation, thereby hindering the establishment of a profound emotional connection with their offspring. The consumption of alcohol, emotional outbursts, and depression have been identified as potential impediments to this process. By the time my friend Kathy and I returned home from school in Year 8, our mothers were already in possession of a martini. Michael's father has been known to throw a television at him on occasion. He asserted that the incident had the potential to result in fatal consequences. The subject's mother was not a particularly problematic individual. However, as is evident in my previous written works, my mother, having endured a significant number of traumas, adopted a distant disposition, seldom engaged with my life or expressed interest in my identity. She herself had only one or two good friends, neither of whom she replaced after their premature demise. If she did in fact embody any social conduct, it was that of self-containment and self-sufficiency. The subject reports never having felt the connection to her that she unconsciously longed for and got a taste of with a loving brother and a couple of cousins.
Despite the value I ascribed to the social connections recommended by happiness scientists, by the time I reached college, I had become too socially isolated and insecure to establish them. The formation of enduring friendships is a common occurrence during one's high school years, or even prior to this stage. However, by the time high school concludes, my daily routine typically consisted of commuting to and from classes, followed by my after-school employment, and concluding the day with academic pursuits and personal study. The subject does not currently have a romantic partner. The subject reports having few friends. It was not until recently that I came to understand that my tendency to prioritise seriousness and studiousness in my academic endeavours was, in fact, a strategy employed to evade the prospect of failure. Or just feared. During my university years, I developed a close friendship with two girls in my hall who shared my tendency towards social reticence. During the weekend, we would convene to listen to records, while our female peers engaged in activities such as dressing up for social events and engagements. The prospect of joining groups or clubs was never entertained. It is imperative to expand the scope of one's social interactions and network.
The crux of the issue pertains to the following: In the event that an individual has been led, on a protective basis, to eschew that which is painful or frightening, such as social connections, it can be posited that this may result in a paucity of social experience and expectations of success. It is evident that individuals who invest a considerable amount of time in solitude, engrossed in their own internal imaginative pursuits, may, as a consequence, appear unapproachable and alien to those around them. This observation was corroborated by Michael, a classmate who, subsequent to my establishment of a social network, became a friend.
As is typical of young people who experience a sense of alienation, I found myself unable to comprehend the internal workings of my own psyche. The hypothesis was that by focusing on academic tasks, the sensation of loss or emptiness, which was theorised to manifest as an ache, could be mitigated. This was believed to be achieved through the consumption of cannabis, which was hypothesised to serve as a depressant. In the past, however, I was subject to its influence. It is evident that by eschewing the cultivation of friendships, an unconscious avoidance strategy was employed to evade the profound yearning for connection that had been experienced during the early years of life. Furthermore, the discomfort experienced in the absence of achievement.
The dissolution of the subject into a state of disintegration proved to be a beneficial occurrence. By the conclusion of my second year, I had begun to weep on a regular basis, typically in my room but on occasion even in public. It was not possible to exercise control over the situation. However, I was also not in a financial position to experience a nervous breakdown. This is not an expression of hyperbole. It was hypothesised that failure to obtain a graduate degree in a timely manner would result in the inability to repay loans and support oneself. It was at this juncture that I sought assistance. It is evident that I did not disclose this matter to anyone and was unaware of how to locate a therapist independently. The psychiatrist with whom I had an encounter was not an appropriate professional to assist me, and the experience was suboptimal. When I finally mustered the courage to disclose the matter to my housemate – and it may have inadvertently emerged during a moment of solitude – she expressed her surprise, attributing her awareness of the matter to her own experience. She went on to recommend the office colleague in question, who, upon further interaction, proved to be amiable and accommodating. Upon acknowledging the state of isolation in which I found myself, Dr. Robertson proceeded to present a resolution that appeared, at first glance, to be both straightforward and attainable. Like a coach would. As with the parent, I had never previously been required to assist in identifying my appropriate social milieu. However, he demonstrated a genuine interest in my contributions and engendered a sense of charm in me. He appeared to find my humorous anecdotes amusing, and he was willing to engage with the social interactions I reported, such as a boy who gave me a lift in the rain and a girl who assisted me with my paper. He expressed enthusiasm when I became involved in a political action group, and approximately a year later, I made a spontaneous decision to audition for a play, which turned out to be a comedy, and was successful in securing a role.
While this may appear straightforward, for some individuals, the following challenges can prove to be particularly arduous: firstly, the acknowledgement that certain abilities may not be within one's innate capabilities; secondly, the introspection into the underlying reasons for these perceived limitations and the acceptance of emotional distress that has been accumulated during the developmental years; and thirdly, the recognition of the necessity for external support.
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4) What the Pursuit of Happiness Really Means
The objective is to act in a way that is beneficial to others, rather than merely experiencing personal satisfaction.
The following are the key points:
The pursuit of happiness, as espoused by the Buddha, is not the feeling of happiness, but rather the doing of good.
Happiness is an active state, not a passive one.
The notion of happiness is not inherently selfish.
The Declaration of Independence (1776) enumerates the inalienable rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. In incorporating the concept of pursuit of happiness, Thomas Jefferson effectively modified John Locke's assertion regarding the inherent rights of individuals, namely the right to life, liberty, and property.
It is notable that Jefferson's actions were consistent with the precedent set by George Mason. The phrase "pursuing and obtaining happiness" was included by Mason in the Virginia Declaration of Rights (1776), and Jefferson heavily drew on this document in drafting the Declaration. A plethora of competing explanations have been posited to account for the motivation behind this decision.
The incorporation of the concept of the "pursuit of happiness" might have been a rhetorical embellishment, as it engenders an ennobling portrayal of government. John Adams is quoted as remarking on Jefferson's "peculiar felicity of expression" in his writing.Another account suggests that Jefferson's decision to remove "property" was motivated by a desire to avoid perpetuating the property ownership of slaves.
A third explanation is that this phrase accords with natural law—the classical idea that there are moral truths in nature, which are discoverable by reason. This philosophy is fundamentally concerned with the human aspiration to achieve a state of flourishing or happiness. This aspiration, whether conscious and explicit or not, is regarded as the universal occupation and preoccupation of mankind. By affirming the pursuit of happiness as an inalienable right, the Declaration signifies the government's intention to support the flourishing of its citizens.
A Declining Trend in American Happiness
A multitude of indicators suggest a decline in the level of happiness experienced by the American populace. As indicated in the 2026 World Happiness Report, the United States has been ranked twenty-third globally in terms of happiness. This position represents a continuation of a prevailing trend of declining happiness levels that has been observed among a number of Western industrialised countries. The decline in happiness has been attributed to a number of factors, including increased social media use, the decline of social institutions, loneliness, and the erosion of public trust.
In the context of the pursuit of happiness being considered an unalienable right, it is pertinent to question why there appears to be a significant proportion of the population that is seemingly alienated from this concept. Furthermore, it is pertinent to consider the conception of happiness as understood by the Founders. The question must therefore be posed: did they conceptualise happiness in the manner in which it is commonly conceived in the present day? The response to this question is negative.
The conception of happiness that was developed by classical thinkers such as Plato, Aristotle, and Cicero is outlined as follows:
1. The prevailing contemporary conception of happiness is often defined in hedonic, or pleasure-seeking, terms as feeling good, rather than doing good.
The concept of happiness is often associated with positive emotions and expressions, such as the smile. However, it should be noted that this perspective is not without its limitations.
It is important to note that individuals may derive satisfaction from inappropriate sources. An example of this phenomenon is schadenfreude, or "harm-joy", which is defined as the experience of satisfaction derived from another person's misfortune. Furthermore, the phenomenon of happiness is characterised by its evanescent nature. The emotional state of the subject is characterised by fluctuations in mood, with instances of contentment interspersed with periods of despondency. These fluctuations appear to be triggered by external factors, such as the receipt of an email, which evokes a sense of discontent. However, the subject's mood is known to improve when confronted with pleasant weather, a phenomenon that is concomitant with the experience of driving, which is often accompanied by frustration due to congestion. As posited by Freud, feelings have been shown to provide significant insight into the world around us. However, they have been demonstrated to offer only limited guidance with respect to the quality of our lives.
Furthermore, it has been demonstrated that the moments which are characterised by the least positivity tend to be those which are of the greatest significance. The notion of raising children is to be considered, despite the challenges involved, as a significant component of a fulfilling life. One should also consider the physical exertion required to scale a mountain or to run a marathon. It is a commonly held view that marathons are often a "frown parade". The prevalence of smiles is minimal, yet the assertion that participation in arduous activities such as marathons is integral to a fulfilling existence is frequently made. It is important to distinguish between the concepts of a good life and a pleasant life, as they are not synonymous.
2. The notion of happiness as being active rather than passive is explored in "Happiness as Achievement", a text by Julia Annas that discusses the experiences of business school students.
The subjects were asked whether, in the event of discovering a significant financial sum, their lives would become happier. The students' response was an unequivocal rejection of the proposal. It is not that the importance of money is in question. It is evident that this is a matter of consequence, for it enables us to satisfy our material needs. Nevertheless, the students were convinced that striving and effort are integral components of a fulfilling life. The notion of happiness as something that is merely passively received is a fallacy.
Aristotle defines happiness as an "activity of the soul in accordance with virtue". The process entails the selection and execution of actions. The concept under discussion is predicated on the notion of striving for virtue (excellence), as opposed to a passive reception of things. This active character of happiness is consistent with contemporary positive psychology. Martin Seligman has reported that factors within one's voluntary control, including habit-formation – which can require "real effort" – have significant and enduring impacts on happiness.
3. The notion of happiness is not necessarily associated with selfishness.
During the present semester, I was responsible for a class on the subject of the pursuit of happiness.
One such assignment entailed students to select a contemporary self-help book, discern how the author defined happiness, and place this definition in conversation with happiness as conceived of by the American Founders. The question must therefore be posed: was the view compatible with a flourishing American citizenry?
In the vast majority of cases, the students' responses were in the negative. A prevalent rationale for this shift pertained to the perception that these perspectives exhibited a pronounced tendency towards self-centredness and insularity, characteristics that stood in stark contrast to the Founders' conceptualisations of human nature. The notion that an individual could realise their full potential by prioritising their own interests over those of their community or country was also contested. Humans are considered to be social animals. According to the classical thinkers who provided the intellectual foundation for the Founding Fathers, this was a fundamental aspect of the human condition. Consequently, flourishing cannot be regarded as a purely individual phenomenon. It involves other people.
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5) How Happiness Leads to Heart Health
Research findings indicate that older adults in contented relationships appear to reap the most significant advantages.
The following are the key points:
-The present study posits that positive co-experiences result in a greater reduction in cortisol levels than positive emotions experienced in isolation.
-The act of sharing joyful moments has been shown to have a significant impact on stress reduction at a biological level.
-The experience of joy or contentment has been demonstrated to have a stress-reducing effect, particularly within the context of happy relationships.
-The health benefits of shared happiness are more pronounced in older adults.
Recent field research is authenticating the age-old association people make between the psychological (i.e. feelings) and the biological (i.e. the heart). Recent studies have demonstrated that positive emotional states induce quantifiable physiological alterations.
The 2026 World Happiness Report (WHR) observes that its twenty-five-year research programme continues to corroborate a psychological finding that longevity and immunity are enhanced not by the absence of negative emotions but by the presence of positive emotions. This phenomenon has been observed across a wide range of demographics and within all types of relationships, though it is particularly evident among older adults. The health benefits of positive moods have been shown to be amplified when such feelings are shared with others, and this effect is further enhanced when the mood is shared between individuals who perceive the relationship to be beneficial.
The Synergy of Field and Lab Studies
Tomiko Yoneda, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of California, Davis, was the lead author of a 2024 study investigating the phenomenon of co-experienced positive emotions in couples' daily lives. From 2012 to 2018, Yoneda and her team conducted a series of studies in Canada and Germany, in which they measured saliva cortisol levels concurrently with the self-reported emotional states of 321 older adult couples aged 56–89 years on multiple occasions throughout the day. She observes that the study's field findings are consistent with prior laboratory studies that demonstrated a correlation between happiness, longevity, resilience, and a more robust immune response due to diminished long-term cortisol exposure, which contributes to enhanced overall health.
The Relationship Between Love and Emotional Well-Being in Partnerships
The results of the study indicate that, in the presence of their relationship partner, both individuals report elevated levels of positive emotions on 38% of occasions, which surpass their individual baseline moods. In instances where their partner reported higher levels of positive emotions, study participants exhibited reduced cortisol secretion. This effect was found to be more pronounced than the effect observed when each individual reported their independent positive emotions. The correlation was also stronger for subjects who reported higher levels of relationship satisfaction.
The research findings indicate that the positive emotions experienced in the context of shared experiences have long-lasting benefits that extend beyond the immediate moment of their occurrence. These benefits are characterised by a reduction in cortisol secretion, both in the immediate moment and at subsequent measurements. Yoneda (2023) posits that the presence of a contented and close partner has been demonstrated to enhance the mood of the other partner, whilst concomitantly aiding both in the management of stress, a finding that is especially salient for elderly individuals.
The Science of Emotional Well-Being
The experience of shared happiness, relaxation, genuine joy, or contentment has been demonstrated to trigger the release of brain neurotransmitters, including dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins. These chemical messengers have been demonstrated to induce a positive sentiment, reduce inflammation, strengthen immune function, and protect cardiovascular systems.
The daily fluctuations in mood have been demonstrated to affect cortisol production, which, in turn, experiences a marked increase in response to acute stress. The existence of a correlation between negative emotions and higher cortisol levels has been demonstrated. Furthermore, it has been shown that chronically elevated cortisol can lead to poorer overall health.
Yoshida (2023) posits that with advancing age, the correlation between emotional states and cortisol levels may become more accentuated. It has been demonstrated that older adults exhibit heightened physiological responses to stress, and their bodies demonstrate reduced capacity to moderate cortisol production. The experience of positive emotions has been shown to have a beneficial effect on the body's cortisol levels, which can contribute to healthier ageing.
Yoneda stated that the findings of the research are in accordance with a psychological theory that suggests positive emotions enhance our capacity to act with greater fluidity in the moment. These experiences can create a positive feedback loop that enhances this ability over time."
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6) How Much Control Do You Have Over Your Own Happiness?
However, it can be argued that this is primarily a recipe for contentment for those who are privileged and do not face significant structural constraints. It is evident that there is a lack of comprehensive acknowledgement of the profound influence that racism, sexism, inequality, and other social forces exert on individuals' well-being. Despite the recent expansion of content on the Greater Good in Action library of happiness practices to make it more culturally responsive and inclusive of a growing number of studies of non-white and non-Western populations, the site still focuses on "simple steps to boost your well-being", reflecting the individualistic quick-fix bias that permeates positive psychology.
It is important to acknowledge that the study of human happiness is undergoing a process of evolution in response to these criticisms. As asserted by the authors of the 2020 paper, "Systems informed positive psychology", the intricacies of the contemporary era necessitate intellectual adaptability and interdisciplinary methodologies. Researchers are required to "comprehend the broader context, encompassing the learning from history, attentive listening of multiple perspectives with a sense of empathic wonder, and the identification of potential intended and unintended consequences."
It is my conviction that this progression must persist, extending beyond the confines of academic journals to popular publications such as Greater Good, which address a more extensive audience. It is imperative to disassociate the concept of "being happy" from the notion of it being a conscious choice, as if it were a simple matter of adhering to a set of straightforward steps. It is crucial to recognise that certain circumstances are inherently challenging, and the responsibility for these challenges does not lie with the individual. It is imperative that greater efforts are made to amplify the voices of those who have been adversely affected by systemic and situational factors that are beyond their individual control. Furthermore, there is a necessity to establish a discourse on happiness that is more inclusive to those who have been compelled to exert greater effort than most to attain their own sense of contentment. It is imperative to consider strategies that extend beyond the realm of personal enhancement, shifting our focus towards the collective potential for societal transformation.
It is recommended that readers of this publication also participate in this initiative. It is evident that individuals possess a limited degree of autonomy in shaping their own lives, a notion that may be particularly challenging for individuals residing in cultures that emphasise individual autonomy. It is not always possible to perceive how social forces influence our own decisions and opportunities, let alone those of others. Nevertheless, we can endeavour to do so. It is evident that the notion of unhappiness being the consequence of ignorance or a deficiency in volition is a fallacy.
It is erroneous to assert that acknowledging the impact of structural forces on well-being is a "recipe for helplessness", as Martin Seligman once contended. It has already been demonstrated that significant numbers of individuals have experienced an increase in happiness due to shifts in legislation, cultural norms, and economic conditions that have rendered it more probable for them to experience contentment. This phenomenon has occurred with a high degree of consistency, often in response to the exertion of pressure by social movements.
This serves as a source of inspiration, which may also be of use to the reader. It is imperative that we act as if our actions have a tangible impact, as William James once suggested—because they do.
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7) The Psychology of Happiness
In contemporary society, the conception of happiness and the factors that contribute to it are often incongruent with reality.
The concept of happiness, however, is not confined to moments of joy, play, or gratitude, nor is it synonymous with the accumulation of wealth or material possessions.
The experience of happiness is frequently facilitated by three interrelated factors. Firstly, a sense of contentment with one's circumstances is conducive to happiness. Secondly, a deep sense of connection with significant others is a significant contributing factor. Finally, the acceptance of both positive and negative emotions in daily life is a necessary component of happiness.
The notion of pursuing happiness is, in fact, a fallacy. In the pursuit of happiness in external sources, individuals often overlook the potential to acknowledge and appreciate the positive aspects in their immediate environment. Moreover, in the event that the present moment is characterised by feelings of sadness or despair, the aforementioned strategies may prove to be of limited efficacy. Conventionally, such periods are characterised by an elevation in sentiments of affection and esteem towards one's peers.
The intertwined nature of joy and sorrow is evident in their juxtaposition, where the presence of one is often indicative of the other.
The notion that financial wealth is a panacea for personal contentment is a pervasive one in capitalist societies. However, research findings indicate that financial resources and subjective well-being are only associated with the capacity to meet fundamental needs. In the absence of basic amenities such as shelter and sustenance, the pursuit of financial prosperity and emotional well-being becomes a primary focus.
However, once the financial resources available to an individual or society are exhausted, there is no longer a strong correlation between material wealth and subjective well-being. Frequently, the pursuit of financial gain is pursued with the objective of attaining a life characterised by material opulence, such as high-end vehicles, substantial residential properties and frequent, costly leisure activities. This pursuit often engenders a comparison between oneself and those who possess greater material wealth; and it is inevitable that one's competitor will possess a greater accumulation of material assets. This cognitive approach has the potential to exert a substantial negative influence on one's overall sense of well-being.
The establishment of robust relationships
A significant contributing factor to a robust sense of life satisfaction is the regular and meaningful engagement with loved ones.
The individuals with whom one surrounds oneself, be they close friends and family members or even a brief yet benevolent connection with acquaintances or neighbours, can provide a plethora of opportunities to experience feelings of love, support and connection.
The provision of support from others is a key factor in the maintenance of contentment, as individuals are able to draw upon the knowledge that they are not alone in facing challenges.
A supportive social safety net
In addition to relationships, there are other factors that contribute to an individual's happiness that are often overlooked.
For instance, residing in a nation with a stable government, where citizens feel secure and cared for, is conducive to our well-being. During the preceding summer period, I was responsible for a study abroad class in Copenhagen, Denmark, which is widely regarded as one of the happiest countries in the world.
One of the key insights gained from this study is the comprehensive nature of the Danish social welfare system, which encompasses a robust educational framework, accessible healthcare, and urban planning initiatives that prioritise the well-being of citizens.
Despite the high taxes paid by the population, the government is responsible for the management of numerous daily stressors and struggles. In the course of interviews conducted with local citizens, a significant number of respondents highlighted that the provision of these necessities had enabled them to allocate a greater proportion of their time to familial commitments and outdoor activities.
It is imperative to impose limitations on the utilisation of social media.
Psychologists specialising in the study of happiness are also concerned with certain social trends that have the potential to diminish well-being, such as excessive social media use.
Recent research into the mental health crisis currently being observed among adolescents and young adults has begun to reveal a correlation between the amount of time spent on social media and feelings of depression, anxiety and loneliness.
The phenomenon of social media has been demonstrated to engender feelings of social comparison, which have been shown to have a detrimental effect on individuals' sense of connection and meaning, and to precipitate the onset of negative emotions.
The notion of happiness is not solely dependent on positive thinking. Indeed, the concept of happiness is not synonymous with blind optimism or the constant adoption of a positive outlook.
In circumstances where individuals are instructed to adopt a positive mindset in the face of substantial challenges or crises, this can, in fact, exacerbate the situation. The experience of hardship and difficulty, including the full gamut of challenging emotions and thoughts that accompany it, has been shown to engender resilience, which, in turn, fosters positive emotions and coping mechanisms over time.
The cultivation of gratitude
There exist practices which, when engaged in, can result in an increase in positive emotions experienced on a daily basis. In the event of an activity being pursued on a regular basis, it is recommended that a period of focused attention be allocated to it, albeit a brief one.
For instance, the enjoyment derived from the consumption of morning coffee is a testament to the importance of personal preference in consumer behaviour. It is not uncommon for the act of drinking to be neglected in favour of other considerations. However, if I allocate 10 seconds to inhale the aroma, grasp the warm mug and observe the rising steam, this provides me with a momentary boost. It is posited that if individuals were to direct their attention to the activities they currently engage in with increased frequency, and which they find personally rewarding, it may result in an enhancement of their overall life satisfaction.
It is not necessary to attend a spa; the act of observing the arboreal flora as one progresses between academic commitments is sufficient. It is possible that the observer may encounter a visually appealing avian species during the course of the study.
It is imperative to pay close attention to this matter. The cultivation of an awareness of the positive aspects of one's environment has been demonstrated to engender feelings of gratitude and contentment. These elements, it can be argued, constitute the fundamental components of contentment.
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8) Happiness & The Art of Being Happy
I was recently invited to provide a contribution to an article on the subject of happiness and its connection to physical exercise. It is noteworthy that this is a subject which I have been researching and prioritising since the beginning of this year.
Clients frequently pose the following question: "What will make me happy? The pursuit of happiness for oneself and one's peers is a fundamental aspect of human existence.
In periods of personal transformation, characterised by the acknowledgement of evolving circumstances, a recurrent inquiry is posed to oneself, encompassing the following: In this third stage of life, the question is posed to Elisabetta: is happiness truly desired, or is it not?
In order to make a choice and come to a decision, it is first necessary to ascertain what constitutes happiness for each individual. Would you concur with this assessment?
A Definition of Happiness
It is first necessary to establish what happiness is not. Happiness is not a constant state of mind.
It is not feasible for humans to experience constant happiness.
It is acknowledged that, despite the possibility of experiencing a state of elation for a period of time, this emotional condition is not sustainable over an indefinite duration due to the inherent characteristics of the human condition. The rationale behind its provisional character pertains to its association with periods of triumph, such as the commemoration of a significant accomplishment (e.g., graduating from university, embarking on an exceptional vacation, completing a full marathon, attaining a pivotal objective or aspiration). A radical and gratifying life change may be defined as any of the following: commencing life after completing one's university education; experiencing a romantic relationship; moving into independent living arrangements; having a child; becoming a grandparent; or winning the lottery.
However, the concept of joy is distinct from these other emotions. It is possible to cultivate a perpetual state of joy, and to recognise it when it is absent. For instance, one may experience despondency in the face of a challenging situation in life or work, yet simultaneously sustain a sense of joy.
It is hypothesised that the natural condition of human beings is to experience happiness, rather than a life of desperation, as is the belief of some individuals. In the case of an individual who habitually experiences unhappiness, it can be deduced that there is an absence of a crucial element that merits further inquiry. It is evident that the responsibility and agency of the individual in question may not be the primary concern in this matter.
It is my contention, based on the premise of experiential evidence, that the individual in question may be deficient in authentic self-love and may be unconsciously driven by a sense of self-loathing.
The question therefore arises of what happiness actually is. This concept has been approached through philosophical and literary lenses by several thinkers, who have sought to provide definitions of this term.
Following a considerable period of engagement with the subjects of self-empowerment and self-actualisation, it became apparent that the act of loving, as theorised by Eric Fromm in The Art of Loving, can be considered an art form. A similar conclusion can be drawn regarding the nature of happiness, which has been demonstrated to be an art to be cultivated. As with all artistic pursuits, this one demands a willingness to engage, a commitment to effort, a fervent desire for mastery, a comprehensive foundation of knowledge, and a sustained commitment to practice.
Through interactions with individuals from diverse backgrounds and cultures, I have formulated several hypotheses concerning the potential pathways to contentment.
It is possible that they could provide a foundation for the development of one's own concept of happiness.
The notion of happiness is predicated on the individual's ability to make a conscious decision that aligns with their personal values and aspirations.
The present author would like to begin with an assumption that can be analysed carefully. It is acknowledged that there may be dissenting opinions on this matter, and it is recognised that freedom of expression on the matter is permitted.
The assumption underpinning this study is that the fundamental human condition is one of happiness, and that the ability to choose happiness is independent of external circumstances.
Michael L.A. Singer's popular book, The Untethered Soul, boldly affirms the following:
It has been observed that individuals frequently find themselves encumbered by an excess of choices. Ultimately, however, it is possible to discard all other considerations and reach a fundamental resolution: 'Do you wish to be happy, or do you not wish to be happy?' The simplicity of this question is noteworthy. Once this decision has been made, the trajectory through life becomes unambiguous."
It is submitted that the fundamental aspect of achieving a state of happiness is that of making a conscious decision. The act of decision-making can be conceptualised as the process of eliminating the potential outcomes that do not align with the desired objective.
However, a significant proportion of individuals do not feel at liberty to make such a decision, as they have been shaped by their original family environment and societal influences, leading them to believe that the capacity to choose happiness is beyond their control.
It is evident that there is a concurrence with Michael Singer's assertion that if the decision is kept uncomplicated, it will be recognised that the attainment of happiness is entirely within the purview of the individual.
The crux of the issue is that individuals generally possess a well-established set of alternative preferences that serve as a source of guidance. The present study hypothesises that the act of focusing on the aforementioned factors invariably results in a state of unhappiness, or even misery.
Secondly, the concept of happiness is an introspective matter.
It is also posited that all individuals are endowed with an inborn, obstinate yearning for felicity, a propensity that frequently engenders an internal sense of disillusionment. It is unfortunate that all of us have, at some point, encountered a certain degree of frustration in relation to this desire. The pursuit of happiness has been unsuccessful.
The experience evoked a state of profound elation and euphoria. Subsequently, the dream underwent a gradual and almost painless dissolution. At this juncture, we had already embarked upon another dream. It appeared that each individual experienced a period of rapid success, followed by a swift decline. This phenomenon occurs when individuals find themselves unable to attain lasting happiness. It is an irrefutable fact that disillusion invariably ensues when an expectation is formed that an individual or entity will engender happiness.
One of the fundamental questions posed by the human heart is: The question that is being posed here is: "Who will make me happy?"
The fundamental error occurs when individuals presume that others assume responsibility for their own contentment. Alternatively, the prevailing societal narrative posits that the accumulation of financial wealth and material possessions is the primary catalyst for achieving contentment.
The challenging reality is that no entity or individual has the capacity to engender feelings of happiness or unhappiness in another.
From a very early age, human beings are taught to seek contentment in erroneous locations. The present study hypothesises that the human condition is characterised by an overreliance on external entities or objects that ultimately prove incapable of fulfilling fundamental needs. One of the factors contributing to the confusion surrounding the source of happiness is the internalised messages instilled during early childhood and adolescence. The human condition is characterised by an inherent desire for understanding, a quest that is inextricably linked to the pursuit of knowledge and understanding. The responses received during the early stages of life were subsequently stored within the memory centre of the brain. These internal tapes persist throughout the day and even during sleep, continuously playing within the individual. The invisible limitations imposed on us have a detrimental effect on our ability to achieve a state of contentment.
It is the contention of the present study that the authentic conception of happiness is an attainable state for all individuals.
Happiness, therefore, is not merely a choice or a decision, but rather a promise and a commitment that one makes to oneself, independent of external circumstances. The primary impediment is that if we reach or look out in order to achieve it, we are undoubtedly not moving in the right direction.
The concept of happiness is one that has been a subject of much debate, with many theorists proposing that it is an inside-out process. The conventional outside-in paradigm, which is instilled in us from childhood, is no longer applicable in the context of happiness.
The third point to consider is that happiness is a by-product of free will and specific life tasks.
It is hypothesised that the attainment of happiness is achieved by the eradication of the potential for discontent or misery, and by engaging in alternative activities.
The pursuit of happiness cannot be pursued directly. All endeavours to seek happiness directly are destined to fail. The vast majority of other commodities and services can be sought out and obtained directly: shelter, sustenance, knowledge, wealth. However, the same cannot be said of happiness. Happiness can be defined as the result of a balanced, peaceful and joyful state of mind, which can be nurtured through specific tasks.
It is this author's belief that these tasks can be condensed into 12 life practices.
My 12 Life Practices
1. The process of acquiring the ability to observe, as opposed to evaluating ourselves and others, is of paramount importance.
2. The fulfilment of personal needs encompasses the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual domains.
3. The decision to transform our existence into an expression of love is a profound and consequential one.
4. The act of electing not to comply with established norms or standards.
5. The pursuit of continuous growth and expansion is prioritised over the attainment of perfection.
6. The following essay will explore the notion of effective communication in professional contexts.
7. The objective of this study is to explore the integration of play and pleasure into the fabric of daily life.
8. The cultivation of self-discipline and willpower is a process that requires dedication and commitment.
9. The decision to reside in a state of trust, as opposed to one of fear, must be made.
10. The practice of embracing stillness, solitude and silence on a daily basis is recommended.
11. The process of attaining patience, resilience, and persistence entails the acceptance of all that is encountered as an integral component of one's life purpose.
12. The capacity to demonstrate forgiveness and forbearance, both towards oneself and others, is undoubtedly a complex matter that cannot be accomplished in a single, definitive act. The notion of happiness as a transient state is a fallacy. This process is characterised by gradual growth. The accomplishment of life tasks is a gradual process, unfolding over the course of days, months and years, as individuals gradually realise the true meaning of authentic happiness.
The fourth point to consider is that the path to achieving happiness is not a transient state, but a permanent destination.
It is my experience that the journey back home is one of deliberate magic, adventure and introspection, leading to an understanding of our inherent spiritual essence and centre, which can be defined as unconditional love: self-love and love for others.
The Importance of Caring for Body and Mind in Achieving a State of Happiness
The cultivation of a healthy mind and a healthy body is a fundamental aspect of any individual's life, irrespective of their age. This practice is a cornerstone of achieving a state of happiness and joy.
It is imperative to recognise the necessity of cultivating and rehearsing a positive mindset on a daily basis. This entails fostering favourable thoughts and sentiments, irrespective of the circumstances encountered in life and professional endeavours. Additionally, it is essential to embody resilience in the face of adversity.
The cultivation of a positive attitude, which is conducive to happiness, is predicated on the principles of self-responsibility and self-respect.
A. The correlation between subjective well-being and physical activity
The relationship between movement and exercise The present author is a staunch proponent of physical movement. It is an established fact that such movement enhances the mental and emotional state of the individual, which is a prerequisite for the achievement of joy and happiness.
The potential correlation between physical exercise and periods of heightened happiness, often referred to as a 'high', is a subject that has been the subject of much research. Exercise and physical exertion have been demonstrated to induce the release of neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin, which have been shown to enhance mood in a number of studies.
Exercise has been demonstrated to have a positive effect on mental health, with studies showing that it can improve cognitive function and emotional well-being. It has been demonstrated that this approach fosters a propensity for favourable choices and actions, thereby facilitating the realisation of objectives and aspirations. The aforementioned factors ultimately result in a profound intensification of our sense of joy and the experience of happiness.
B) The correlation between contentment and social interaction
Homo sapiens are the dominant species on Earth. The fundamental human need to establish and maintain interpersonal connections is a fundamental aspect of our existence. The act of socialising, engaging in recreational activities, engaging in sexual relations, the act of sharing, and the practice of remaining in a state of silence are all examples of how humans seek to foster and strengthen these connections. It is possible to exchange and recharge one's inner mental and emotional energy through the process of interaction.
It is generally accepted that human beings tend to prefer the company of others. The presence of others is a significant factor in the experience of happiness and the cultivation and maintenance of joy.
It is possible for all individuals to establish a shared objective with regard to happiness:
It is imperative to strive towards achieving a harmonious balance between moments of contentment experienced in the company of others and in solitude, without the influence of social media.
The realisation of this objective is pivotal in achieving the true potential of being a 'whole' human being. This entails the ability to foster contented moments in the company of others, whilst simultaneously deriving personal fulfilment from one's own state of joy and peace.
In my estimation, this represents the authentic method for achieving a state of profound and enduring happiness in the context of social connection.
It is imperative to acknowledge the following: the ability to experience joy is a decision that originates within the individual. The capacity to select happiness is predicated on the recognition that we possess the authority to influence our own choices. Consequently, we possess the capability to preclude the possibility of adverse outcomes, such as unhappiness or misery, by exercising our free will.
However, the ability to make such a decision is predicated on the individual's profound desire and capacity to exercise their free will. It is imperative to acknowledge that desire can be cultivated and competencies can be acquired.
It is imperative to bear the following in mind: Happiness is an inside-out job!"
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8) The Secret to Happiness Is Helping Others
There is a Chinese idiom that states: The assertion that the pursuit of happiness can be achieved through the act of taking a nap is one that warrants further investigation. Should one wish to experience a day of contentment, it is recommended to partake in angling. The acquisition of a substantial financial endowment has been demonstrated to engender a state of happiness that is sustained over a period of one year. In the pursuit of long-term contentment, altruistic contributions have been demonstrated to be a significant factor. For millennia, the most profound thinkers have proposed a similar notion: the pursuit of happiness is found in the act of helping others.
It is evident that the subject has acquired this knowledge at an early stage. The act of giving is often considered to be more virtuous than receiving. The time-honoured aphorism is instilled in us from a very early age, often symbolised by the first bite of a birthday cake. However, does this superficial truth reveal a more profound underlying reality?
The answer to this question is an unequivocal affirmative. Scientific research provides compelling data that lends support to the anecdotal evidence that giving is a powerful pathway to personal growth and lasting happiness. The utilisation of functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) technology has led to the revelation that the act of giving results in the activation of the same cerebral regions that are known to be stimulated by food and sexual gratification. The results of the experiments demonstrate that altruism is an innate human tendency that is embedded in the brain and is also a source of pleasure. It can be posited that providing assistance to others may be a pivotal factor in the pursuit of a life that is characterised by enhanced levels of happiness, health, wealth, productivity and significance.
However, it is important to acknowledge that the act of giving can, at times, be an uncomfortable experience. Conversely, the opposite may well be true: The act of giving can, in some cases, engender feelings of emotional exhaustion and a sense of being exploited. The following recommendations are provided to assist individuals in extending their giving beyond the point of necessity, towards a state of genuine satisfaction.
Identify your passion.
1. It is imperative that our passions serve as the cornerstone upon which our giving is founded. The significance of a gift is not determined by its material value; rather, it is the expression of affection and consideration that accompanies its bestowal. It is only natural that we should care more about some things and less about others, and this is an acceptable state of affairs. The selection of the appropriate course of action is not merely a matter of identifying the correct solution, but also of determining the course of action that is optimal for us.
2. The gift of time is frequently considered to be more valuable and fulfilling for the recipient than a financial gift. It is an irrefutable fact that financial resources are not equally distributed, yet it is equally true that all individuals have a certain amount of time at their disposal. The question therefore arises as to how best to utilise this common asset. One option is to dedicate one's entire life to the service of others, a path pursued by a select few. An alternative option is to give a smaller amount of time, whether that be a few hours a day or a few days a year.
3. It is recommended that financial contributions are made to organisations which have clearly defined aims and which can demonstrate verifiable results.
Harvard scientist Michael Norton has stated that "Donating to a cause that specifies the intended use of the funds results in greater happiness than donating to an umbrella cause where the destination of the funds is less clear."
4. It is imperative to identify methods through which one's interests and competencies can be aligned with the requirements of others.
As Adam Grant, author of Give & Take, asserts, "Selfless giving, in the absence of self-preservation instincts, easily becomes overwhelming." The notion of "otherishness" is defined as a state of being willing to give more than one receives, while still maintaining one's own interests.
5. It is imperative to adopt a proactive approach rather than a reactive one.
The experience of being prompted to donate to a fund raiser organised by acquaintances is one that many of us will have encountered, and it is often accompanied by a sense of reluctance. In such cases, the propensity to donate is more likely to be driven by a desire to avoid humiliation rather than by acts of genuine generosity and concern. This form of altruism is unlikely to engender a sense of personal satisfaction; rather, it is more probable that it will result in feelings of resentment. Instead, it is recommended that time be set aside for consideration of the available options, with a view to identifying the most suitable charity with which to align.
6. It is important to note that individuals should not be made to feel guilty about not donating. The aim is not to discourage people from supporting charitable causes; it is simply important to acknowledge that not all charitable causes will provide a sense of satisfaction. If the act of giving were to be motivated by the expectation of reciprocity, the world would be a far more dreadful and opportunistic place than it is. However, if individuals are compelled to donate through feelings of guilt, it is probable that their commitment to the cause will be transient.
The crux of the matter is to ascertain the approach that is congruent with our individual dispositions. When such an opportunity arises, the more one gives, the more one stands to gain in terms of purpose, meaning and happiness. These are the elements that are sought after in life, yet are often elusive.
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9) What Is Happiness ? Understanding The Happiness Paradox
Key Insights
Happiness and strong relationships are vital for mental and physical health and key to wellbeing.
Types of happiness include momentary joy (hedonic), which contrasts with deeper purpose (eudaimonic).
The concept of happiness is understood to vary across different cultures, societies, and life stages.
Prior to embarking on my career as a psychologist, I pursued a course of study in philosophy. At that time, I was intrigued by two questions of equal importance, yet equally challenging in nature: The fundamental question that needs to be addressed is the purpose of life and the nature of happiness.
In the course of my practical application of psychology, my focus has repeatedly been drawn to understanding and answering the latter. Despite the pursuit of happiness in both personal and professional spheres, its maintenance appears to be as challenging as maintaining a steady flow of water.
It is imperative to comprehend the concept of happiness, as it is of equal significance to our clients, colleagues, family members, and friends. The values to which individuals subscribe are inextricably linked to the manner in which they approach life and the actions they choose to take.
The present article explores this question. The question of what constitutes happiness is a complex one. The impact of this phenomenon on individuals and society at large, and the potential for fostering its growth, are crucial areas for exploration.
What Is Happiness in Life?
The seminal Harvard Study of Adult Development, which commenced over eight decades ago and has since encompassed multiple generations, corroborates the significance of happiness in ensuring our sustained psychological and physiological well-being.
Robert Waldinger, the most recent custodian of the research, corroborates the notion that happiness, along with its most significant contributing factor, good relationships, has a profound impact on health, wellbeing, experiences in the workplace, and the ability to recuperate from periods of adversity in one's life.
However, the question remains: what precisely is happiness?
A definition of happiness
Waldinger and Schulz (2023) posit that in order to comprehend happiness, it is necessary to consider both the immediate and the long term.
Hedonic happiness is defined as a moment-to-moment, temporary and transient experience of joy. The focus on the present moment and the pursuit of immediate pleasure is a hallmark of this approach. Conversely, eudaimonic happiness is defined as "a deep sense of wellbeing in which a person perceives their life as meaningful and purposeful".
Renowned researcher and author Brené Brown proffers several valuable definitions that facilitate an exploration and elucidation of the question, "What is happiness?" The present study sets out to distinguish between the concepts of happiness and joy, and to provide a definition of the former as "feeling pleasure often related to the immediate environment or current circumstances".
The following definition of joy is proposed by:
Joy is defined as a state of being that is of a higher intensity than happiness. The phenomenon under discussion can be described as an intense feeling of deep spiritual connection, pleasure and appreciation.
A definition of contentment
Conversely, contentment is defined as the degree of satisfaction an individual experiences, which is in contrast to a constant desire for more.
Brown (2021, p. 205) defines contentment as the "feeling of completeness, appreciation, and 'enoughness' that we experience when our needs are satisfied."
A definition of subjective wellbeing
Subjective wellbeing (SWB) is a term frequently employed in psychological research, denoting the manner in which individuals appraise and evaluate their own lives.
SWB is not merely a single concept; rather, it is a multifaceted construct encompassing reflective cognitive judgments regarding life satisfaction, positive emotions, and pleasant emotions. Research has identified a positive correlation between SWB and various health outcomes, including better longevity, creativity, and work performance.
The image below illustrates the multifaceted determinants of happiness, with a focus on genetic factors, environmental influences, and cognitive processes. The text under discussion recognises the importance of mindset, attitudes and feelings in shaping positive connections with oneself, one's environment and others.
The Paradox of Happiness
The majority of clients, if not all, will articulate a clear desire for happiness. It is a fundamental psychological need that most individuals aspire to fulfil.
However, a paradox of a different order has been identified.
The extant research suggests that the perpetual pursuit of happiness may result in feelings of frustration and dissatisfaction. This phenomenon can result in an allocation of cognitive resources to the pursuit of evasion (or the absence of) rather than to the cultivation of positive emotions, such as joy and gratitude, which have been demonstrated to enhance subjective well-being.
As the following diagram illustrates, the pursuit of illusory happiness and the incessant monitoring of progress can yield deleterious consequences.
Research into the subject of happiness indicates that critical contextual factors should also be given due consideration.
A 2015 study concluded that "culturally bound meanings shape whether individuals' pursuit of happiness is likely to result in more or — paradoxically — less actual happiness and wellbeing".
This suggests that there is no universally applicable approach to formulating or resolving the question of what constitutes happiness.
The Neuroscience of Happiness
In considering the question, "What is happiness?", it is customary to reflect on our emotional states, actions, and identity. However, it is also necessary to take into consideration the hardware of the brain.
Cognitive psychologists have identified the prefrontal cortex as being integral to the regulation of emotions, the amygdala as being pivotal in the management of stress and other emotional responses, and the hippocampus as being crucial in the storage of positive memories.
Neurotransmitters, including dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins, have been demonstrated to play a pivotal role in the experience of pleasure, the process of reward, motivation, and the development of positive emotions such as wellbeing and happiness.
Eight Indicators and Taxonomies of Subjective Wellbeing
Contemporary research into subjective wellbeing (SWB) continues to elucidate the nature of happiness and its fundamental components.
The following psychological factors have been identified as contributing to the definition and categorisation of SWB:
Life satisfaction
Positive self-evaluation is defined as the consideration of the overall quality of individuals' lives and the alignment thereof with their expectations and goals.
Positive Emotions
The experience of positive emotions, including but not limited to joy, hope, awe, and gratitude, is indicative of a positive affective state.
A reduction in negative emotions
It is not necessary for negative emotions to be absent, but it is important that they are experienced less frequently.
The fulfilment of basic and psychological needs
It is an established fact that individuals have a number of fundamental needs that must be met in order to ensure their well-being. These include the need for safety, shelter, and food, as well as psychological needs such as the desire for competence, autonomy, and relatedness.
The Importance of Supportive Social Relationships
The possession of strong and lasting connections with friends, colleagues, partners and family members is conducive to the provision of emotional support and engenders a sense of belonging.
Meaning and purpose
The process of aligning one's actions with personal values and objectives has been shown to result in a sense of fulfilment and purpose.
Resilience
The ability to adapt to significant challenges and disruptions, and to subsequently establish or re-establish a positive course of action, is paramount for optimal psychological and physical well-being.
Engagement and flow
A profound sense of involvement in tasks and activities has been demonstrated to engender positive mental health outcomes and offer substantial rewards.
The Significance of Happiness in the Context of Well-Being
As the concept of happiness becomes clearer, the subsequent focus shifts to its significance.
The importance of happiness is predicated on its close correlation with both psychological and physical wellbeing.
The sense of interconnectedness with others, a robust predictor of subjective well-being, has been shown to reduce the risk of mortality across all age groups and to enhance the probability of optimal health.
A 2018 study established that, given the positive impact of happiness on health outcomes, it serves to reduce the health care burden and enhance health care performance.
Happiness Throughout the Lifespan
Happiness is not static; it is a concept that changes over time. Researchers have identified that this phenomenon exhibits fluctuations throughout the human lifespan.
The U-shaped curve of happiness
Psychologists posit that levels of happiness reach their zenith in the 20s, subsequently decline to their nadir in midlife, and then rise again in old age. This phenomenon is often referred to as the U-shape of happiness, a concept that has been corroborated by numerous cross-sectional studies.
However, despite the term's popularisation in media discourse and among economists who support it, the concept may not be as straightforward as initially perceived.
Longitudinal research studies seeking to address the question, "What is happiness?", have tracked individuals over the course of their lives (Galambos et al., 2020).
The findings of the present study suggest that happiness and the factors involved are highly complex and vary considerably between individuals. The manner in which we evaluate our life satisfaction and general wellbeing appears to be of greater significance than our age.
Positive Ageing
The Harvard happiness study acknowledges the significance of positive relationships in promoting happiness in later life. The findings of the present study suggest that, in order to achieve positive ageing, it is necessary to prioritise close friendships, family, and romantic relationships.
The establishment of human connections has been demonstrated to be an effective measure in reducing feelings of loneliness, thereby increasing the likelihood of physical and psychological wellness, and, by extension, a more fulfilling life.
A plethora of studies have also identified a general shift in outlook with advancing age, which has been demonstrated to positively influence perception of happiness. As posited by Galambos et al. (2020), older adults appear to demonstrate a superior capacity for processing and recollecting positive events in comparison to negative information.
The following essay will seek to explore the notion of defining happiness across different cultures.
It is a well-documented fact that culture is often invisible to those within it. However, the nation's prevailing values, traditions, and practices significantly influence an individual's personal values, life goals, and the manner in which the question of happiness is answered.
In individualistic Western cultures, the pursuit of wealth and its concomitant material benefits is a common ambition. Conversely, individuals inhabiting more collectivistic cultures may place a higher value on family connections and the pursuit of collective goals.
Nevertheless, it is important to exercise caution when making value-based judgments that are culturally instilled. For instance, while the correlation between happiness and wealth has been well-documented, once a household has attained a sufficient level of income to meet its fundamental needs, a clear relationship between financial wealth and measures of well-being such as joy, laughter, and recreation becomes less evident.
A 2015 study explored the impact of culture on wellbeing in over 150 countries and territories. The study's findings imply that cultural values influence how individuals appraise, experience, and report happiness. A number of these phenomena can be explained by reference to the subjects' religion and beliefs, social norms surrounding emotional expression, cultural coping mechanisms, and expectations and aspirations.
11+ Tools for the Enhancement of Subjective Wellbeing
The improvement of subjective wellbeing represents a fundamental component of positive psychology, and a plethora of tools have been developed for the purpose of enhancing a client's approach to happiness.
It is recognised by the research community that mindfulness training has the potential to improve happiness and subjective wellbeing. The efficacy of brief interventions, comprising three sessions, has been demonstrated to yield positive and enduring outcomes.
In order to facilitate this process, it is recommended that the following exercises be attempted in conjunction with the client:
Being Present: It is imperative to acquire the necessary skills to enhance one's awareness of internal cognitive and physiological processes, as well as external environmental stimuli.
Funeral Meditation: This unconventional mindfulness practice, which may initially seem implausible, has been shown to enhance concentration and promote well-being.
The following essay will explore the concept of workplace mindfulness. The workplace can be a source of considerable stress. This exercise encourages a state of loving-kindness through a focus on personal values.
Right Here, Right Now: The ability to be present in the moment has been demonstrated to engender a sense of grounding and to facilitate enhanced stress management through heightened awareness of positive emotions.
Linking Feelings and Situations: A methodical re-examination of past circumstances can serve as a secure and fruitful approach to comprehending the correlation between our cognitive processes and emotional responses.
The establishment of relationships
The cultivation of strong connections fosters long-term contentment. The following exercises have been developed to assist clients in identifying, fostering, and focusing on positive relationships:
Proceeding to the Formation of New Relationships: The establishment of new relationships can necessitate the relinquishment of previous ones. The exercise is designed to emphasise the essentials and the underlying rationale.
Understanding Siblings: Despite their significance, sibling relationships can be characterised by complexity. The cultivation of an understanding of early family connections and responsibilities has been demonstrated to contribute to the strengthening of bonds.
The following essay will explore the values that one might seek in a relationship. The cornerstone of successful relationships is the establishment of a clear understanding of one's desires and the values that one adheres to.
The Formation and Consolidation of Social Bonds: This set of questions is designed to encourage the reflection on the positive aspects of establishing beneficial relationships.
Positive emotions, such as joy, awe, love, kindness, and gratitude, have been demonstrated to be closely linked to subjective wellbeing.
The following exercises have been developed for use with clients to assist them in cultivating positive emotions.
Capitalising Positive Emotions With Active Constructive Responding: The process of re-establishing connections with positive events has been demonstrated to be a highly effective method of fostering positive emotional responses.
The potential for enhancement of emotional awareness is predicated on the identification and subsequent elucidation of the genesis of emotional responses.
The cultivation of happiness awareness
The following image has been identified as a useful tool to facilitate an enhanced understanding of the concept of happiness.
Clients should be encouraged to focus on each question and understand what the answers tell them about their lifestyle.
The Three Dimensions of Happiness
Happiness can be defined as an enduring state of mind consisting not only of feelings of joy, contentment, and other positive emotions, but also of a sense that one's life is meaningful and valued (Lyubomirsky, 2001).
The state of being happy has been shown to have a positive effect on those who experience it. However, the question remains: what elements comprise happiness?
In his seminal work from 2002, Martin Seligman advanced the concept of a tripartite model of happiness, positing that it can be cultivated through the development of three distinct facets.
The notion of an "abnormal experience of pleasantness" (Seligman et al., 2005) is predicated on the premise that a "pleasant life" is one that is characterised by regular experiences of pleasure. This is in contradistinction to a "meaningful life", which is defined by frequent engagement in satisfying activities. The third component of this triad is the experience of a sense of connectedness to a greater whole, which is typified by the pursuit of a "fuller life". It is this combination of the aforementioned components that is believed to characterise the happiest people, who are those who "infuse their life with pleasure, engagement, and meaning" (Seligman et al., 2005).
Building on Seligman's three dimensions of happiness, Sirgy and Wu (2009) added a fourth dimension, termed the 'balanced life' dimension.
According to these authors, balance in life is another key factor contributing to happiness because the amount of satisfaction derived from a single life domain is limited. In order to satisfy the broad spectrum of human needs, it is necessary to be involved in multiple domains. Consequently, cultivating a sense of equilibrium becomes imperative in order to effectively manage these various life domains.
Happiness
10) How Happiness Impacts Your Health
The Impact of Happiness on Health: A Comprehensive Analysis of Positive Emotions and Stress Management
The pursuit of happiness is a laudable endeavour. The subject instils a sense of optimism, a "take-on-the-world" attitude and a positivity that can be infectious. It is evident that happiness can also have a positive impact on one's physical well-being.
Rhyann Willey, LCSW, a therapist at Northwestern Medicine, elucidates the correlation between joy and health.
The following study will examine the physical changes that occur in the human body when experiencing happiness.
The experience of happiness or joy is associated with the release of chemicals in the brain, such as endorphins and serotonin, which are often referred to as the "happy hormones". The chemical compounds in question have been demonstrated to enhance mood, whilst concomitantly instigating alterations in cerebral activity, thereby engendering a sense of calm and well-being.
Furthermore, positive emotions have been demonstrated to play a pivotal role in stress reduction and the enhancement of overall health. The following is an exposition of the scientific principles underpinning the concept of happiness.
The Relationship between Hormones, Happiness and Health
The question of why stress can cause feelings of imbalance is one that has been the subject of much research. The underlying cause of this phenomenon is attributable to hormonal imbalance.
Cortisol, frequently referred to as the body's stress hormone, is initiated during a "fight, flight, freeze or fawn" response:
Fight: The body prepares to confront a threat head-on, increasing energy and focus for action.
Flight: A surge of cortisol is induced, resulting in the mobilisation of energy for rapid movement and heightened alertness, as well as facilitating the evasion of potential threats.
Freeze: The body enters a state of repose, thereby conserving energy, whilst simultaneously assessing the situation in order to ascertain its safety.
Fawn: In order to avoid conflict or harm, the subject may attempt to appease or please others.
Cortisol has been demonstrated to be beneficial when administered in brief intermittent doses, as it has an effect on the regulation of blood sugar and blood pressure (Jones et al., 2022). However, when cortisol levels remain elevated for a prolonged period, there is a heightened risk of developing health complications.
As Willey asserts, "Continuous stress has been demonstrated to exert an effect on nearly all the body's physical functions." The experience of excessive stress can result in a number of detrimental outcomes, including but not limited to:
The following are some of the most common health complaints experienced by individuals suffering from migraines:
- fatigue
- high blood pressure
- digestive problems
- weakened immune system
- increased risk of heart disease and diabetes
On the other hand, serotonin has been proven to be the brain's mood stabiliser. The practice has been shown to engender feelings of calm, focus and emotional balance (Smith, 2020). The positive well-being of the individual can result in the following outcomes:
The following are the physical effects of elevated serotonin levels:
- Decreased blood pressure and heart rate
- Reduced muscle tension and stress
- Improved digestion
- Better sleep
In addition to these physical effects, higher serotonin can lead to increased productivity, stronger social connections and improved daily self-care.
Positive and Negative Emotions
Willey posits that an optimistic outlook on life is conducive to the maintenance of healthy routines, such as a balanced diet and regular exercise. In cases where an individual has been exposed to excessive levels of cortisol, resulting from stressors in life, trauma or mental health conditions, the primary objective is survival. It is possible that the issue of self-care is not a matter of which you are particularly aware.
Excessive cortisol and chronic stress have been demonstrated to interfere with serotonin, a process which has been shown to engender feelings of tension and decreased happiness. Low levels of serotonin have been demonstrated to be a contributing factor to the development of depression and anxiety, with the resultant impact on the quality of life of those affected.
Achieving Hormone Harmony
What measures can be taken to achieve hormonal balance? The prevailing notion of happiness is commonly associated with a sense of purpose and well-being. Optimism is a by-product of a fulfilling life. It has been demonstrated that a positive attitude has a role in the production of serotonin, which in turn plays a regulatory role in emotions and the management of stress.
Willey's area of expertise is dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT). This form of psychotherapy is designed to assist individuals in the management of intense emotional responses. It has been demonstrated that the implementation of this strategy can contribute to a reduction in harmful behaviours and an enhancement in relationships. The subject is a DBT skill known as the accumulation of positive emotions.
Willey (n.d.) posits that the accumulation of positive emotions is contingent on the identification of quotidian sources of joy, with the overarching objective being the realisation of a life that is deemed to be worth living. "Happiness is not a one-time achievement. It is a process that unfolds over an extended period of time."
A Consideration of Eight Methods for Enhancing Mood
While individual differences in personality and psychological make-up are well-documented, the capacity to enhance one's own mood is a far more open-ended question. Research has demonstrated that modifying behaviours and mindset can enhance well-being and health. The following eight points are provided as a guide to stimulate positive emotions in one's life:
It is imperative to engage in practices that promote stress management and mindfulness. The practice of breathing techniques and quiet meditation has been demonstrated to have a positive effect on stress reduction and mental clarity.
It is imperative to have a robust support system in place. The human condition is characterised by an innate need for connection. Social relationships have been demonstrated to stimulate emotions and act as a rapid mood enhancer (Jones, 2019).
Express gratitude: It is recommended that a brief period is allocated to the acknowledgement of the positive aspects of one's existence, irrespective of their perceived insignificance.
It is imperative to initiate movement: It is evident that physical activity, including but not limited to walking, dancing, gardening and yoga, has the capacity to enhance energy levels and positively impact mood.
It is recommended that the individual concerned takes a period of respite. The hypothesis that increased leisure time and shorter work breaks can enhance subjective well-being and increase productivity is one that merits further investigation.
It is recommended to be generous: Acts of kindness have been shown to engender feelings of happiness in both the individual and the collective.
Smile: The act of smiling has been demonstrated to induce the release of endorphins, which are chemicals that are associated with positive emotions (Jones, 2019). Research has also indicated that these chemicals can influence an individual's emotional state (Smith et al., 2021). This phenomenon is known as the facial feedback hypothesis.
The following positive affirmations are recommended for the purpose of fostering a positive mindset: It is recommended that individuals engage in positive self-talk to mitigate the impact of negative thoughts. Affirmations such as "You've got this!" and "I will find joy in small moments today" have been found to be particularly efficacious in this regard.
It is also possible to ingest foods that are high in tryptophan, a nutrient that is utilised by the body in order to synthesise serotonin.
The following foods have been demonstrated to enhance positive emotions:
Turkey
Tofu
Tuna
Salmon
Milk
Cheese
Eggs
Pumpkin seeds
Chia seeds
Walnuts
Cashews
Elevating Emotional Resilience
Individuals who adopt a positive outlook on life and adhere to their principles are more likely to exhibit confidence and effective stress management. This confidence enables them to overcome challenges, including health-related barriers.
For instance, maintaining optimal levels of serotonin and cortisol is instrumental in ensuring the optimal functioning of the body. This equilibrium has the potential to facilitate the recovery process following an illness or surgical intervention.
The importance of authenticity in achieving personal contentment
The pursuit of a fulfilling life Furthermore, it is important to recognise the value of finding joy in the process. This phenomenon is subject to individual variation.
As Willey asserts, it is prudent to commence with modest steps. The practice of mindfulness, the establishment of interpersonal connections, and the recognition of minor achievements are all recommended.
In the event that an individual is encountering difficulties in removing the mental health barriers that hinder their ability to experience happiness, therapeutic intervention can prove to be a beneficial solution during periods of adversity.